Monthly Archives: January 2013

The Walker vs The Talker

By the way, ni cite semalam…….

Aniesonick’s definition…

WALKER: Someone who walks away from a problem/argument for whatever reason; whether to take a break from the argument, take a minute or two to think over, or just walking away.

TALKER: Someone who talks with or without thinking first before saying things..

So, this morning on Red.fm, with Lil Kev and Sarimah~~! *ala2 advertisement*.. they talk about this topic.. I would have called up but heck.. aku tak cukup kerajinan lagi nak warwarkan suare lunak ku di radio.. So pikir jer laa sesorg dalam otak, dalam keta..

The question was, which one are you?

My answer is, I’m a walker..

Some callers said its not good to walk out from your problem.. and it is always the talker who actually has to solve the problems because the talkers believe they need to solve the problem right there and then.. Unlike walkers, they don’t get the problem solved.. Well, I believe that if it is a positive argument, there would not be walking away situation.. You will think into it as well and get it solved. But if it is an argument, yang sorang pot pet pot pet.. stat hayun tangan kemane mane.. sorang lagi geleng2 kepale atas kerusi.. malas nk cakap.. skali skale bagi jelingan berhantu.. yang kene jeling, lagi hangin… pastu stat ngungkit ngungkit.. yang duduk tadi tak tahan, cabut.. Hence the talker and the walker..

*yes.. too much of drama helps with the scene… No, it is not from self experience… takmo laa.. Na’uzubillah kau~~*

If it was me, I would probably walk away when i said LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN… and orang tuh tak listen listen.. hehehe… *mind u, i am not gonna comment on dis more… but what i have to say, one of them showed matuarity, and the other showed childishness…* Sebab harus laa aku dah hangin kan.. asek die jer nak talk talk.. aku punye citer kau tak nak dengar kan… why? bagi diriku tenang.. bagi diri die tenang..

 

Daripada Abu Hurairah bahawa Rasulullah telah bersabda:”Bukanlah orang yang kuat itu orang yang selalu menumpaskan orang lain, sesungguhnya orang yang kuat itu adalah orang yang dapat mengawal diri ketika marah.”

(Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

 

When we are that mad.. we don’t use that thing in our head to speak.. we use the thing in our chest to speak.. and that way, the serpent would easily burn you more and more.. and eventually, it will become a BIG fight.. wouldn’t it be easier if you just calm yourself down and then talk?

Ketiadaan perasaan marah pun tak logik jugak.. Perasaaan marah itu adalah lumrah kehidupan manusia.. Perasaan sayang, suka, sedih, jeles dan ini termasuklah perasaan marah.. But, its up to that oneself bagaimana to control those feelings.. Its all about how you manage yourself..

Kesengsaraan Minda Selepas Ketenangan Jiwa

Weekend before the last weekend, Nana got engaged with Mafiq.. woohoo!! Nana is a good friend from SSP years and Mafiq is a sweet friend from Vanderbilt years.. Who would have known nana is finally getting married this year.. hahahaha!!! But anyways, congratulation girl and happy for you!! Also, you look awesome that dat 😉

Nana's Engagement

You look awesome walaupun not so much in this picture L0L!!

Last week, the first two days of the week I went Kuantan.. Business trip yang i felt very worthwhile going… And going with this babe does contributes to it.. Usually, i would travel alone but this time.. It’s kinda nice to have a good company hehehehe…

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Kami kanak-kanak riang!

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Kami kanak-kanak jakun tengok cermin besar

And despite all that happiness in life, aku stress once balik office.. With work load crazy like a crazy clown jack… achieving bosses expectations.. achieving customers expectations… Customer’s needs.. nak itu ini.. aku plak pi commit jer sume.. bile nak buat, tak tahu nak start mane.. pastu cam org gile stress.. sampai pening-pening kan diri.. terpakse balik awal jugak.. balik ajer, pengsan…

5477249-a-box-devil-is-toys-which-looks-from-the-outside-like-a-box-with-a-crank-if-one-turns-these-he-playsThe next day, pandai plak motivate diri sendiri.. terus jadi proactive and efficient.. hohohoho!!! Bangge kut!! *sendiri bangge sudaaaaa*

Pastu the weekend came.. Actually.. there’s a family function/outing.. pastu Jumaat call, diorg cancel lak.. and tak bgtau awal2.. oh hangin diriku tak terkate.. i would have arranged something for myself!!!

But again, good companies are always good and i got friends to do so…

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kami di Port Klang makan seafoodddddd

Gambar di atas diambil sejurus selepas order kami di ambil.. Tapi again.. frust menungging lagi aku dibuatnye… Food plakkkkkk siap lambat… Our table-neighbor waited for more than an hour and end up leaving the place without even eating!!! How crazy is that!!! Sape laaaa tak hangin kan??? Sejam lebih jugak lerrr menunggu food.. Nasib sikit jer lauk kitorg.. Itu pun… salah jugak… gosh~~~ nak kate tak nak pegi dah.. takle.. sbb sedap.. tapi nak pegi lagi rase cam.. Puiii!!! service cam hampeh… so terpakse laa aku puiii sket2 jerr.. sebab nanti nak datang lagi.. hehehehe

Oh tidakk.. aku merepek..

Another weekend..

Yeap.. its another weekend.. The first weekend of the year too!!

Am going Melaka for a friend’s wedding and since for what ever reason, I am not in a good mood.. I planned to have fun with some friends.. Sometimes, you just need it.. Where you don’t think much and just do what you like…

Apparently, this week as well, I got a few orders for cheesecake.. *rasanye dah cakap..* so I shall keep myself occupied with baking.. also some trial and error I hope.. the only thing i hate about baking is, if it doesn’t come out right… what do you do with the cake??? feed it to the bin.. such a waste~~

anyways.. talking about weekend.. Me and some girlfriends thought of going out together cause one is getting married, one is giving birth, and one is celebrating her birthday. But in the end, things didn’t go as planned.. So instead, they are just going to meet up over lunch.. Unfortunately/Fortunately, I’m going to Melaka.. But it would be nice if I could join them…

So as we were planning over mails, one of us actually brought up that we actually been friends for almost 9 years now! how time flies!! and what interesting is… we didn’t realize that we are actually… urmmm… wiser~~ hehehehe… ok.. fine.. getting older.. hehehe… and even after those years, we didn’t even realize that  our gossips and chats actually evolved.. I mean, before, its about building our career.. finding a man *which for some, still searching till today*.. about  getting married and such.. But now, it’s about pregnancy, life after marriage, getting more salary or promoted or jumping on to somewhere better and that kind of stuff.. A lil bit about getting a home to ourselves and that sorta thing as well…

Its normal.. right?

People grow up.. our priority in life changes as time goes by.. We meet new people, we learn something new, we adapt to new environment, we learn new culture and all those kind that contributes to your growing up process.. Interesting as it is, we are still the same person deep inside.. If I look at my friends or hang out with them.. I can still see the same person I knew from college.. and I guess that is why we are still friends till today..

So to my dear girlfriends and you know who you are… I do cherish you guys.. I do believe you will treat me as that same person you knew from 9 years back and vise versa.. I do hope we will still be the same.. still joke around as we always do.. and hope our husbands would be good friends as we are.. and hopefully even our kids =)

XOXO

*ade gaye gossip girls tak? ngeh ngeh*

A little diary moment

Dear Self,

Year by year.. day by day.. You’ve learnt the unexpected.. You have learnt that things aren’t that straight forward at times and sometimes.. It is as it is.. Accept it and take it..

But even that, it is not easy.. There’s the emotion turmoil.. the light headed after long night cry.. The hot flaming anger in your chest.. The regrets.. The happiness you need to put behind.. You’ll put yourself in that small corner and just calm yourself down.. even it takes days or weeks or months..

But God is fair dear.. He knows best about ourselves more than we do.. You need to learn the hard way cause you’re that strong.. not because you are weak.. You are strong enough to make it through and became the better person you are today.. Let it be a reminder to yourself to do things for the good..

………

 

 

I think im to stressed up with life and work.. that’s not good..

This weekend need to do something fun…

even if doing it alone.. hahaha!! ~~

2012 to 2013

Pada tanggal hari ini, bermula lah kembali kiraan 1 hingga 365 hari..

It is always today I’d think to myself, what had happened the past one year.. the past 365 days..

and for the first time after years, I got to say.. It was one of the best year I ever had…. =)

Alhamdulillah…

Personally.. I grew up alot this year.. I learnt things i never knew about myself.. about people… I became someone I think is better than before.. Maybe I am still the lazybump but at least on other aspect.. better.. hehe..

Career.. I think I am having fun with the work.. Good people surround me.. Of course there’s glitch here and there but that’s something I have to learn and grow out..

Others.. I had fun travelling… I did some activities that I miss a lot and already planning to do more this year.. Got 2 additional members to the Rahim’s clan… which is always fun!! And of course those journeys of life that is better to keep to oneself and embrace it.. The moments whether its hard or fun.. it has it side affect on me the least and nothing for me to regret about.. But be happy it did happen.. =)

I don’t know about yours but I will miss 2012~

Oh and prolly, just a lil snip it of myself in 2012..

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Welcome 2013~~

 

This year.. I’m planning big things to happen to myself.. and every year i keep on telling myself that we can only plan.. InsyaAllah..

I’m planning to get my sandal and sports shoe to wear this year.. I got the shoe for my birthday present and sandal for self satisfaction..  so its time to use them to the max.. ehehe… I hope so laa at least.. So I myself am expecting a lot of pictures =D

Other than that.. I just hope for a better year ahead..InsyaAllah.. Ameen~~